I went to the Oncologist with mom yesterday
When I went to get her she was still in the bathroom. I got her dressed and ready to go. That took 15min. She is so slow now and shuffles her feet when she walks. She has had to take many breaks while walking to the exam room.
When we got there after a very long wait the Oncologist came in.
She is very compasionate and nice. I like her
She talks to mom and the bottom line is this.
No chemo it will kill her
She will start Hospice ASAP
Dad needs help he cannot do it alone. More than just the family.
The Nurse was there today and she spent time with mom and said she will start the paperwork for Hospice.
I am soo sad. I havent cried yet, but i have flipped out and threw a chair.
It is just a matter of time now.