I dont date. Ever. I never have, i am more of a relationship kind of girl. My first "real" boyfriend was older than me and he asked me out and it lasted 3 yrs.
Then my first husband, i met at work when first b-friend was going sour. He asked me out the day after me and the other one broke up. That lasted 9yrs and a marraige.
I started dating my now ex AKA:2nd husband, right after i left the 1st husband.
Hmmmm This is making me sound pretty bad huh??
Well i am just making a point..that i really don't date around to find "The One" they kinda come to me.
Sooooo i am "dating" the ex again.
After me and the b-friend S broke up, i said that i will date other people. But frankly i find it rather tedious.
Looking around, sometimes on-line. Trying to meet someone and get to know them and explain your life, baggage and all. Then dressing up, shaving your legs (you know.....just in case), and putting your best face forward. Ugggghhhh, way too much work.
So, this situation fits me well. He has seen me at my best and worst, he already knows my kids and has felt my hairy legs on more than one occasion.
But definetly NO reason to date him again right?? i knew you would say that.
Here are some reasons why i should:
He is very ,very remorseful for the mistakes he made.
He is harder on himself that i could ever be on him.
He is very funny, always has been.
He is thoughtful (after seeing all i had to do after work yesterday, he insisted i not cook and went out and got pizza)
He is sincere with his feelings
He doesn't lie. Never has despite how much it hurts.
He has a cute laugh. Its a chuckle really.
We have the same interests. TV, Books, Music, Games
He LOVES his kids unconditionally.
He makes good money. (see thats pretty far at the bottom)
I truly believe him when he says that i am the ONLY woman he has ever loved.
And still does.
I love him too.
Do you think that is enough to give him another chance???