When me and the husband decided to start dating and then eventually marry again, there was a lot of talks. I mean ALOT. There were things to go over, and hash out . We spoke about what went on in our marriage . What went wrong and what went right.
The decision to start to date again, came after coffee dates, and talks. It wasn't a decision that we jumped into. He didn't immediately stay overnight, we didn't tell the kids or even my family.
When we finally decided that it was what we wanted, that our happiness and our family was worth another try, we told everyone. Mostly everyone was supportive. There are always the few people who will have their doubts and questions. The ones that were there when it fell apart and stayed by me and saw the hurt, and anger. The true friends. Eventually they saw that we both changed and it was right. We are the loves of each others lives, and there is truly none else out there for the other one.
But, there is always that one (or even 2) haters that have so much to say, about things that they have no idea about.
This person/people are cowards of the worse kind. They spew poison and hate wherever they go. Their lives are so empty and sad that their happiness comes from trying to make others unhappy.
I am sure that I am not the only one.
But heres the thing. Ain't gonna happen. You can say the worst of the worst and none will believe you.
We fought so hard and been through too much to let some Cancer infect our lives.
So good luck and Good riddance